As the semester comes to a close, I am compiling my Christmas gift list (and checking it twice!) and thinking about the beginning of a new year. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and most ladies are dreading the idea of spending it alone. The main reason why most women are alone on this lovely holiday is because they never pursue a crush, or let a romance fizzle out because they don’t know how to take a relationship to the next level. You have to steer your own life; don’t let your crush go without at least giving it a try!
First off, don’t doubt yourself (that is the golden rule), and never feel that you aren’t good enough for someone. It is key to have confidence and a good amount of self worth before you pursue a relationship. It is true: you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. If you are not comfortable with yourself, how can you open up and be yourself with someone else? A woman who is sure of herself is ready to pursue a partner!
It is as simple as that; be confident, be yourself and be (somewhat) aggressive! As they always say, you only live once, so make the most out of what you have! There is someone out there for everyone and you don’t want to miss out on love because you were afraid to make a move. Just remember, countless relationships may not work out – don’t let it bring you down. There are a million incompatible fish in the sea, and you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. Don’t get discouraged! You have to sort through a million relationships before you find the perfect fit, so patience is most definitely a virtue. When the shoe finally does fit, don’t be afraid to wear it!