She Said…I’d say your best bet is to find out yourself what kind of guy he is. Sure word of mouth can provide some insight and a different outlook and what he’s like, but these other opinions are not always the truth. You’ll never really know until you find out yourself. If the chemistry is well and alive and you feel that his actions don’t justify those accusations, then you really have nothing to worry about. It can probably be jealousy from others or bitterness towards him. If the talk about him is true, well back away before you become another heart broken victim, no sense in getting all caught up in something
that is bound to end ugly. Do yourself
the favor, and get out while you can if his reputation is the real thing.
Either way, you are the one person who can decide if the guy’s worth it or not.
He said.
This one is simple. Don’t put yourself in a situation that you’re not sure about. You know that the person has a track history of breaking hearts so why even bother. It’s like once a cheater always a cheater. What makes you think this person will change for you. You chances are slim to none. Plus, you are questioning whether or not you should bother. That right there is a red flag. If you have the thought that the person will break your heart you shouldn’t even want anything to do with them.
Be smart because at the end of the day it’s going to be your decision no matter what he said or she said.