College life is meant for new things, especially new relationships. Some go with being single for a while but some women are looking for a guy that’ll be real and honest.
Surprisingly, you can’t find that around campus that quickly. Men always complain. “This girl doesn’t talk to me” or “she’s always busy”, well if men weren’t so busy trying to find the next “jump-of” maybe they’d actually get to know some real ladies around campus. Now a day’s, men are coming on too strong.
Instead of coming up to a girl and complementing on her back side why don’t you ask for her name and complement her with respect. Today I hear “Yo, can I get your name?” Now men, do you really think a respectable young women would actually talk to you.
The first thing I would tell you is that you obviously think my name is “yo” so why even bother asking? I think I speak for all the ladies when I say that what “we” really need isn’t a guy that has six girlfriends and a main girlfriend that lives with him at his mother’s house. What we really need is a man that’s not afraid to let his buddies know that he is not going to play around while he has a girl.
One day I was walking on campus and a guy out of no where says “yo…” (notice that’s the first word they use) you are so fine let me get your number”. Okay! Now look, we are in college here. The last thing I would expect is for a twenty year old to come up to me and say that. College life is supposed to be full of new experiences. When I thought about college, I definitely did not think that I was going to deal with some high school boys. Notice I said “some” because believe it or not ladies not all men are like this. I am just letting the ones that are know that if you really want to get a girl that’ll be true to you and be real, then you have to start respecting women.
Next time you try to get a number from a pretty girl on campus; don’t give it out to half of your friends. Trust me, she wouldn’t like that and probably would forget your name and how you looked like faster than you “spilling” her number out to all the guys. Don’t press up on us either. If we want to talk to you, we will.
Men wonder why we women stray away from them so much sometimes. Well this is why: Instead of looking at a woman like she’s a piece of meat, why don’t you look at us like human beings. I am just letting you readers know the truth. This is my voice being spoken to all of you men when I say: if you want the time of day from a woman, start giving us some respect. That shouldn’t be too complicated for grown college men……right?